Trust is such a basic relationship necessity that if we can't trust a
parent to love and protect us - whom can we trust? When we have been
betrayed in our most basic human relationship - and that trust is never
restored - how can we learn to trust ourselves to respond appropriately to betrayal?
I actually betrayed myself when I accepted betrayal as a part of my relationship with my mother.
I began safeguarding myself when I realized that I didn't have to accept betrayal - especially from my own mother.
I
learned to trust myself in baby steps. I needed to feel the pain of my
misplaced trust in order to protect myself and to seek out those whom I
could trust. I learned that when I listen close enough, pain is a
useful resource for protecting oneself.
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